Category Archives: Friends that are Open Books :)

Hi Loves,
Thank you for reading my blog. Hope you enjoyed it. This blog was initially inspired by my friends whom insisted I share some of my funny ‘friends-with-benefits’ stories as well as stories from my dating experiences. I’m an open book and my motto is “There’s no shame in my game”. Feel free to comment or contact me with any question you may have. Also, I would like to open this blog up to anyone that has an inspiring story or a tale of some funny shit that happened to you. I will post what you send me (anonymously of course) so everyone can get a good laugh or become inspired in some way.
Have a great read
El D~Spot

Massage with a Happy Ending ;)

Hi All!

My friend asked me to post some of my internet dating stories for your enjoyment.  The story below is rated X and very detailed… Enjoy!


I went to my favorite masseuse. Being a swimmer, it is great to find a masseuse who was an Olympic swimmer as he knows where it hurts and can figure out if my stroke was off. I have gone to him many times before and nothing like what you’re about to read has happened. During our last appt I noticed when I was on my stomach he sat down and put my hand on his crotch. umm… ok. He was hard and throbbing. OK! He worked on my shoulders and back before telling me to turn over.

When I was on my back, he started on my calves and slowly started working up. He positioned my legs like yoga’s tree pose and started massaging my inner thighs which sadly were sore. As we were talking his hand brushed my crotch. In mid sentence my breath caught. My body reacted swiftly… I was gushing!.. (Keep in mind, I haven’t had sex in years so my crotch was salivating like Pavlov’s dogs!). I didn’t say anything but his hand brushed me again. A moan quietly escaped me. My body was ready. I guess he could see that as he pulled back the sheet. My panties must have been soaked as he touched my clit through the thin fabric. I almost jumped out of my skin the orgasm was so strong. Gees talk about the element of surprise! *grinning* Right then he pulled the cloth away and started slowly fingering me. Wave after wave the orgasms lapped me.

He was talking at this time… I love when a man talks to me during any form of sex. Especially when he is telling me what he is doing, thinking and liking. He asked me to keep licking my lips and each time he did I was rewarded with another orgasm. He gently entered me with his big fingers. This orgasm took my breath away. He left his fingers there as I came down and I asked him “what does it feel like inside me?” He said “let’s find out!” Before I knew what was going on I was pulled down to the end of the table, my panties discarded and was entered. I screamed and came violently! DAMN! He really knew how to make an entrance!

He put his fingers in my mouth and entered my mouth with his tongue as we shared my juices in a kiss. His other hand pinching my nipple causing me to cry out with the lovely pain. After losing count of my orgasms on my back, I was turned to my side. He kneaded my tit, one leg on his shoulder the other on the table. He kept talking and I kept cumming. He told me how tight I was, how breath taking I was and how many times he wanted to do this in the past. His voice calm but under laid with want and lust. He put me back on my back and put my hand on my clit. As I was fingering myself he was watching and encouraging me on.

He then pulled me up, got me on my feet and turned me around. With my chest on the table he entered me and started pounding me from behind. OMG! I hadn’t been fucked by a man in a long time and my body was relishing the moment. I felt my wetness running down my legs! I had a crush on this man since the first time I saw him, but I never told him until now. I told him to fuck me, how much I wanted him and how great I felt!

He flipped me over and before I knew what was going on his tongue entered me. I came hard again. But after a little bit I realized he wasn’t very good at eating a girl out… I need very slow stimulation as my clit gets oversensitive with too quick movements. He was in frenzy mode and even with prompting, he didn’t slow down as much as I wanted to so I asked him to come up. *disappointment*…(lol)

He entered me again… how did this man stay hard? After 2 plunges he was full size again and filling me. I came a few more times when he walked over and asked me to take him in my mouth. I love the taste of myself so I gladly obliged. As I was sucking he was fingering me. When I came I made sure to keep my mouth on him so that he would get the full vibration. God he was an expert with his fingers!

He moved back down and entered me again. This time he was very tender and sweet. We made out and he softly told me how great he felt and how he wanted to do this from the first time but didn’t know how I would react. We made out some more. Then he stood up again and slowly started going in and out his full length. Painfully, slowly, he watched as my last orgasm built… not heeding my pleads to make me come. Slowly he moved and the higher I climbed. When I couldn’t take much longer, he gave about 6 full thrusts and pulled out. THAT is my favorite… The sudden void pushed me over. I think the people walking on the sidewalk outside the window must have heard my screaming. I enjoyed feeling his hot load land on my stomach, his balls still pressing against my clit, his mouth covering mine.

MY GOD! This was one of the best fucks of my life!

2 Stories: I had to ask Cotton or Lace? and Friends with benefits Rejection

Hi all!

My friend asked me to post some of my internet dating stories for your enjoyment.  I was a part of Match, Plenty of Fish, eharmony and yahoo. Each one gave me someone and some event to talk about. With that said here is my first story from a flex match on eharmony


For those who don’t know, on EHarmony they have full matches and flex matches. Flex matches is when they can’t find someone who is “compatible with you on all 29 characteristics.” Most of the time they can’t find someone who is fully compatible with me. Just so you know if you decide to use EH. Being Asian, ambition is very important to me so one of my first questions is “what are some of your goals?” I was messaging with a prominent university Department Head and was very interested based on his profile. Below is how our first conversation went:

Me:   What are some of your goals?

He:     To wear women’s underwear.

*lol…That’s all I needed to know… but I had to ask

Me:     Cotton or lace?

He:       Lace.

Me:      Well best wishes in your search. I only wear cotton.

Friends with Benefits

From Match I got this guy messaging me. We messaged for a little and he asked me to check out his profile. Gees this man was full of himself… his profile was no exaggeration 3 pages down! After reading about 1 paragraph 6 lines. I gave him my opinion on it. He then said he was attracted to me because Asian women are the “sexiest on the planet”, “have the best hygiene” and “smell the best” *shivers – creepy*

I told him I wasn’t interested as he was 5 inches shorter than I am (I’m tall – 5’9″) so he asked if we could just talk and that he respected my decision. I said he could text me and gave him my google voice number. We texted for a couple days and then he decided he was going to MAKE me want him (boys, why do you do this? such a turn-off).

On the 3rd day he asked if I would like to get together with him “for a fun time”

Me: No.

He: I could make you scream and “see heaven”

Me: I don’t believe in heaven.

He: We could be friends with benefits

Me: We are not friends

I then blocked him from google and Match. Its a hilarious and tough dating scene out there. Really!? “I could make you scream and see heaven”….lmao

**Next week El D-Spot will post one of my ultimate best stories of something I experienced a few months ago. Its totally worth the read 🙂

Brand New Bitch

Hi Loves,

So, my best friend just got her heart truly broken for the first time. Long story short, mature (has her shit together) girl falls in love with immature (always changing my mind, have no clue what I’m doing with my life loser) girl….My description of the other girl might be a little bit biased but she broke my bestie’s heart so she deserves it ;)….. anyway, it was a roller coaster relationship and after a trip in Italy when things couldn’t be worse the immature girl professes her love for mature girl. Mature girl falls for the lie and soon after they get back to the states immature girl fucks another chick. Bestie’s heart breaks. At some point bestie finds passages in diaries and Chat conversations of immature girl saying how fat, ugly, and disgusting my mature girl is. Its been a little while since bestie has begun the healing process and even though she has moments of weakness, regret, and the kind of pain only someone that’s been in love experiences, she has started to pick herself up from the ground, realize her self worth, and has begun putting the pieces of herself back together. Through these hard times my bestie has found a new appreciation for her true friends, her family, and for the strong person she didn’t realize she was. To my bestie, I love you. And to everyone out there that’s going through a rough time remember that you are loved and that whoever that boy or girl is was just an immature loser girl/boy.

Below is the song my bestie sent me to reflect how she currently feels inside. So, to all my loves out there that have gone through a similar heart breaking situation and have begun healing. This is for you 😉 !!